York's Blog, February 21st, 2026. 8:41AM

After roughly a year or so of back and forth, "maybe, maybe not" it seems like my """""relationship""""" with this current girl has come to a close. I sent her Valentine's flowers and she loved them. Until 2 days later when she finally told me she wished I hadn't done that and that we can just be friends. Hello? When did this occur and why am I just now hearing about it? I don't get it. She was always a bit iffy about labels. Like not necessarily calling each other boyfriend and girlfriend. But she was very loving and attentive, and genuinely acted like she really liked me for a while. Our entire circumstance of even getting together was us talking one day and having no idea we both liked each other when we first met through a mutual friend. But maybe it wouldn't have worked in the end. She is very pop culture and celebrity culture obsessed. She has a specific actor she's so much in love with that she has pictures of him everywhere and always tries to go to conventions or meet ups to get pictures with him. It came off as very strange to me, especially if you're trying to date. She is also very privileged in terms of finances and living, and only works a part-time job for fun. So she never understood how much I struggle and work hard.

But now she wants to "remain friends". Sorry, I find that very selfish. It feels like you want me to be with you wihtout being with you. And for the record, how the hell am I supposed to just nonchalantly go back to being friends after we've been sexual and shown each other everything? That is just not something easy for me to do. So I'm not sure what's going to happen now. We got into an argument about this a couple days ago and haven't spoken since. It sucks. I really liked her. She was totally my type too. Cute pudgy tummy, big boobs, fat ass...sigh.

Closing Remarks

Girlfriend applications are now being accepted.